Probably worth mentioning that it's reflexive in our society, when accused of something, to respond with "OK, prove it!". Doesn't matter if the accusation is of being self-centered, racist, or having bad taste in music. If you're going to classify somebody, you owe them a reasoned attempt to prove the reasons behind your classification.

"You're a racist because you were raised in a white supremacist society" doesn't cut it, for at least two reasons any intelligent person can think of off the top of their heads.