I’m a man. I can see full well why the comment was offensive.
Congrats. My point is that most won’t and don’t. From experience, I’d say you’re an exception to the rule.
”In fact, what you’re proposing is exactly a 1950s with reversed gender roles:”
I am proposing nothing. What I am voicing preference for is precisely the opposite of what you state. We have to get to a place where gender isn’t considered relevant to job role.